If someone says to me uttam kshama and seeks forgiveness what should I reply
In Jain dharma, when someone says uttam kshama and seeks forgiveness, the proper response is to grant forgiveness sincerely and without resentment.
How to respond
- Say “Kshamā” (I forgive you) or “Khamānā" (I forgive you) clearly.
- You can add a gentle affirmation, e.g., “Kshamā āpurva chhe” (forgiveness is given wholeheartedly) or simply, “Khamānā, bikhaṭā nahi” (forgiveness granted, no grievance).
Key idea
- Forgiveness should be unconditional and free of ego. The one who seeks forgiveness should also reflect on their mistake and resolve to avoid it in the future.
If you’d like, I can give a short, ready-to-use phrase in the traditional Jain style.