Can I perform cunnilingus
In Jainism, sexual conduct is considered a private matter for householders and should be governed by non-violence (ahimsa), truth, purity, and self-control.
- Within marriage, sexuality is generally allowed and viewed as a normal part of a committed relationship, provided it is consensual, respectful, and does not harm either partner.
- The key is restraint and responsibility: avoid coercion, harm, deceit, or actions that inflame passion beyond what is appropriate for the relationship.
- For monks and nuns (ascetics), sexual activity is renounced entirely; celibacy is a core vow.
- Personal hygiene, modesty, and cultural norms around purity are also considerations in some Jain communities.
If you’re unsure, consider how your actions affect your partner and your own spiritual goals. The emphasis is on mutual consent, compassion, and self-control.