Sorry to hear about the loss. Here are simple, respectful ways to respond that align with Jain values of compassion, forgiveness, and gentleness:

• I’m deeply sorry for your loss.
• My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
• May the departed soul find peace and liberation (moksha).
• Please forgive me if I ever spoke or acted carelessly toward you or your loved one.
• If there’s anything I can do to help you during this time, please tell me.
• I’m keeping you in my thoughts with kindness and compassion.

A few tone tips from a Jain viewpoint:

• Speak softly and listen openly; allow space for grief without rushing to “solutions.”
• Avoid harsh or judgmental comments about the situation.
• If you share memories, focus on the virtues of the departed and the positive impact they had on others.
• Offer practical help (meals, errands, company) rather than empty phrases.

If you’d like, tell me the relationship you had with the person and the setting (funeral, condolence message, etc.), and I can tailor a short message for you.