What is the belief about marriage
In Jainism, marriage is viewed as a household Dharma (grihastha dharma): a social and spiritual partnership that supports moral living, mutual respect, and the growth of virtue. It is not a sacralized rite for attaining spiritual goals by itself, but a means for two people to help each other practice ahimsa (non-violence), satya (truth), and self-control, while fulfilling family and social duties.
Key points:
- For lay Jains (householders), marriage enables the proper performance of duties (dharma, artha, and social responsibilities) and the upbringing of children in a Jaina ethos.
- The vows and conduct in a Jain marriage emphasize fidelity, mutual respect, non-violence, and ethical living. Couples are encouraged to support each other in spiritual progress and to avoid harm to living beings in thoughts, words, and actions.
- Monks and nuns renounce marriage entirely; they take vows of complete asceticism.
- There are differences in rites and customs between Digambar and Shwetambar traditions, but the underlying purpose—to support virtuous living and spiritual growth within a steady, lawful partnership—remains common.
In short, Jain marriage is a shared path for two people to live righteously, restrain passions, and foster a wholesome family life that upholds non-violence and spiritual development.