what happens if i promised god not to masturbate but i break it
In Jain dharma, what matters now is not that you fell, but how you respond to it.
- Yes, breaking such a promise is a fault (pāp)
- Masturbation is considered a breach of brahmacharya (celibacy / sexual restraint) for lay Jains. - When you knowingly promised in front of Bhagwān (or in your mind to God) and still did it, it becomes a conscious transgression – so karmic bondage is there. ( jainknowledge.com)
- But Jainism never says “now you are finished”
Jain dharma always gives a way to clean the fault: - We all have kashāy (anger, pride, deceit, greed, sensuality). - The path is: accept – repent – correct – prevent, not guilt and self‑hatred.
- What you should do now (simple Jain way)
(a) Alochanā – honestly admit the mistake - Calmly accept: “Yes, I broke my vow of brahmacharya.” - Do not hide it from yourself or justify it.
(b) Pratikraman – true repentance - If you do daily pratikraman, include this specifically. - With real feeling, think: “I have done a fault by breaking my promise of brahmacharya. I regret it and I do not wish to repeat it.” - If you know Navkār Mantra, chant it with this bhāva (intention).
(c) Pratyākhyān (Pachchakhān) – make a new, realistic promise - Don’t jump to “never in my life” if you keep failing; it leads to more guilt. - Start with a limited, practical vow, for example: - “For the next 3 days I will not do this.” - Then increase slowly: 1 week, 1 month, etc. - This is fully in line with Jain anuvrat style – small, sincere steps.
(d) Change the causes, not only the promise Most people break the vow because they keep the same triggers. In Jain terms, remove pramād (carelessness): ( jainknowledge.com) - Avoid erotic / romantic content, late‑night phone use, and being alone in bed for long. - Sleep on time; keep body a little tired with good work / study. - Light, simple (sāttvik) food; not heavy, spicy, or overeating at night. - Do short samayik, svādhyāy (Jain reading), or mantra‑jap when urges come.
- How Bhagwān “looks at” this
- Tirthankars are pure kevalī; they do not get angry or “insulted”. - They have shown the law of karma: actions + intentions = result. - When you sincerely repent, stop justifying, and honestly try to improve, that reduces the intensity of future karmas. This is exactly why pratikraman and prāyaścitta (small penances like ekāsan, ayambil if health allows) are taught.
- Digambar / Śvetāmbara view
- Both traditions clearly say: - For monks/nuns: any sexual act, including masturbation, is a serious break of mahāvrat brahmacharya. - For laypeople: masturbation is a transgression of the brahmacharya‑anuvrat and should be avoided; if it happens, one should do pratikraman and renew the vow. ( jainknowledge.com)
- Most important attitude
- Don’t fall into despair or think “now I am dirty forever.” - In Jainism, repeated honest effort matters a lot. Even if you fall 100 times, each time: 1. Accept the fault. 2. Repent sincerely. 3. Renew a practical vow. 4. Remove triggers and increase sanyam (self‑control).
You can also read more guidance on brahmacharya and masturbation from a Jain point of view here: and