In Jainism, gṛhastha / grahasth jīvan means living as a householder (family person) in a way that supports spiritual progress, not against it.

Below is a very simple outline.

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1. Basic aim of a Jain householder

• Main goal of life is still moksha (liberation), not only money, status, or pleasure.
• But you walk towards this goal while:

- taking care of family, - earning honestly, - living in society with dharma.

You are not expected to live like a monk, but to live with restraint, honesty, and compassion.

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2. Five main vows in smaller form (Anuvrat)

For householders, the great vows are followed in limited form:

1. Ahimsa (Non‑violence)

- Be strictly vegetarian (many Jains also avoid root vegetables on certain days or fully). - Avoid killing insects knowingly; be careful in walking, cleaning, using water, etc. - Never support violence, cruelty, or hate by money, speech, or social media.

1. Satya (Truthfulness)

- Speak truth, but only in a way that does not hurt others unnecessarily. - Avoid gossip, lies for profit, or harsh words.

1. Achaurya / Asteya (Non‑stealing)

- Do not take anything not given. - No cheating in business, exams, online dealings, or time (e.g., wasting employer’s time).

1. Brahmacharya (Chastity as per gṛhastha)

- Before marriage: avoid sexual misconduct. - After marriage: faithfulness to one’s spouse; no secret affairs, no misuse of sexuality.

1. Aparigraha (Non‑possessiveness)

- Keep life simple. - Limit clothes, jewellery, gadgets, luxuries. - Earn and enjoy within limits, but do not be greedy or showy; keep heart detached.

These are common to both Digambar and Śvetāmbara; only small practical details may differ.

You can read a very simple explanation of basic Jain practices for householders here

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3. Daily practices for grahasth Jains

Try to build a small but regular routine:

1. Namokar Mantra – with respect, morning and night.
2. Samayik (if possible, ~48 minutes)

- Sit quietly, think of the soul, drop anger, greed, worries. - Even 15–20 minutes of peaceful, non‑distracted time helps.

1. Pratikraman (at least once a day, or small form at night)

- Remember: “Where did I hurt others today by thought, word, or action?” - Feel regret, mentally ask forgiveness, and decide to improve.

1. Swadhyaya (Study)

- Read or listen to some Jain scripture or pravachan regularly, even 10–15 minutes. - Helps keep direction clear in busy life.

1. Food discipline

- Vegetarian (many now try for vegan where possible). - Avoid alcohol, drugs, unnecessary harm (e.g., honey). - Avoid wasting food; eat with gratitude; many avoid eating after sunset.

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4. Money, work, and family in Jain way

• Earning:

- Choose work that causes minimum violence and no cheating. - Do not earn by fraud, corruption, or harming many lives.

• Spending:

- Simple living, some dān (charity) to temples, monks, animals, poor, etc. - Help Jain sangh and also general needy people.

• Family:

- Teach children ahimsa, honesty, and simplicity from young age. - Maintain peace at home; avoid shouting, insults, and physical violence. - Husband and wife support each other’s spiritual growth (time for pratikraman, upvas, etc.).

A nice Jain perspective on marriage and gṛhasth life is here

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5. Higher ideal: Gṛhasthalinga Siddha

Jain texts even mention “gṛhasthalinga siddha” – a person who lives externally like a normal householder but is internally completely detached, finally destroying ghāti karmas and attaining the state of Arihant and then Siddha. This shows that even as a grahasth, one can reach very high spiritual levels through inner detachment and pure conduct. You can see a brief explanation here

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6. In short

Jain grahasth jīvan means:

• Live in family and society,
• Follow small vows strictly,
• Reduce violence and attachment day by day,
• Keep mind towards soul and moksha,
• Use your home, money, and relations as support for dharma, not as bondage.

If you tell me your age and routine (student, working, married, etc.), I can suggest a very small, practical daily Jain schedule for your grahasth life.