how to be truthfull
In Jain Dharma, to be truthful (satya) means much more than “not telling lies.” It is honesty in thought, speech, and action, always joined with ahimsa (non‑violence).
Here is a very simple, practical way to grow in truthfulness:
- Decide: “I will not cheat or deceive.”
- No lying in talk, messages, or social media. - No cheating in study, work, business, or relationships. - Do not create a false impression by silence or clever tricks.
- Before speaking, use 3 checks:
Ask yourself: - Is it true? - Is it necessary? - Can I say it kindly / without harm? If any answer is “no,” it is better to remain silent or speak less.
- When truth can hurt – be gentle or be silent
Jain view: Truth must be ahimsak (non‑harming). - Do not use “truth” to insult, expose, or humiliate others. - If whole truth will cause useless hurt, either: - say it very softly and carefully, or - wait, or stay silent.
- Admit “I don’t know” and “I was wrong”
- If you don’t know, say: “I am not sure” instead of guessing. - If you lied or exaggerated, accept: “Yes, I said wrong,” and correct it. This cleans inner guilt and reduces new karma.
- Keep promises small and clear
- Promise only what you really can do. - If plan changes, inform honestly instead of making excuses. This builds a truthful character.
- Daily self-check (small pratikraman)
Every night, ask: - Where did I lie, hide, or exaggerate today? - Whom did I mislead? - From tomorrow, what will I change in that situation? Feel regret from the heart and take a new resolve for next day.
- Truth in mind also
- Avoid inner hypocrisy: thinking one thing, showing another. - Try to see situations as they are, without jealousy or hatred changing your view. Inner honesty slowly makes outer speech honest.
- Same essence in Digambar and Shwetambar
Both traditions teach: - Satya is a main vow. - Truth must be joined with ahimsa. - If speaking truth will cause serious himsa, silence is better than speech.
If you want to read more on the Jain vow of satya and the twelve vows of a layperson, you can read here