Aapka rishta hua:

• “Mere baba ji” = aapke dada ji
• Unke “bhai” = aapke pardada ke doosre bete / aapke dada ji ke real bhai
• Unke “pote ka pota” = unke naati ke bachcha, jo aapse kaafi door ka rishta hua

Jain dharm ke “shuddh” siddhant se:

• Jain shastro mein aise kisi rishtedar ke janm par “kitne din ka sutak” ka koi nishchit niyam nahi diya gaya.
• “Sutak / ashauch” (janm ya mrityu ke baad kuch din tak dharm‑kriya bandh rakhna) Hindu parampara ka vichaar hai, Jain ka mool siddhant nahi. ( jainknowledge.com)
• Jain drishti se ashuddhi ka kaaran janm ya mrityu nahi, balki krodh, maan, maya, lobh aur himsa hain.

Isliye:

1. Jain dharm ke hisaab se

- Aap par is janm ka koi dharmik “sutak” ka bandhan nahi hai. - Aap normal roop se mandir ja sakte hain, puja, chaityavandan, Navkar mantra, samayik, pratikraman sab kar sakte hain.

1. Ghar ki parampara alag ho sakti hai

- Agar aapke parivaar / samaj mein kuch din ka sutak maana jata ho, to woh sirf samajik parampara (vyavahaar) hai, Jain shastro ka niyam nahi. - Aap chahein to parivaar ke respect ke liye halka‑phulka maan sakte hain, lekin use “Jain dharm ka rule” mat samjhiye.

Saral baat: Aise door ke rishtedaar ke bachche ke janm par, Jain dharm ke anusaar aapko sutak nahi lagta. Aap shuddh snan karke, pavitra bhav se, apni sab dharmik kriya normal kar sakte hain.