can a person take diksha and then if they don't want to take diksha anymore can they go back to their normal life's if they want to
In Jain dharma, diksha is meant to be lifelong (aajivan diksha). When someone takes monk/nun diksha, they promise in front of Jinendra Bhagwan and Guru to leave worldly life forever.
So, in principle according to shastra:
- A person who has taken full monk/nun diksha should not return to normal household life.
- It is considered a very big spiritual commitment, much stronger than any ordinary vow.
However, what if someone really cannot continue?
- Sometimes, in rare cases, a sadhu/sadhvi may break their vows and return to family life.
- Jain scriptures and acharyas see this as a serious fall (avasthā-chyuti).
- From that point, spiritually they are again treated as a shravak / shravika (lay person), not a monk or nun.
- They must do strong pratikraman, prayashchit (repentance) for breaking such a high vow.
Because of this:
- Good acharyas/gurus test and train a person for years before giving diksha,
- They check: vairagya (detachment), mental stability, family situation, health, etc.
So, in simple words:
- Diksha is not like “trying monastic life for some time.”
- It is taken with the clear intention never to return to normal worldly life.
- If someone does come back, dharma still accepts them as a lay follower, but spiritually it is seen as a major mistake and great loss of a rare opportunity.
If a person has doubts, fears, or is not fully ready, Jain dharma would say: Better to remain a sincere shravak/shravika than to take diksha and then leave it.