Jain shastraon mein “sir dhakna hi zaruri hai” aisa koi nishchit, sab par lagu niyam nahi milta. Ye zyada tar maryada, vinay aur local parampara ka vishay hai.

Samanya roop se:

• Mool dhyan:

- sharir saaf-suthra ho - kapde saade, sharif aur shareer dhakne wale ho - chamde (leather) ki belt, purse, jacket, etc. na ho - mandir mein shaanti, vinay aur dhyan ka bhaav ho

• Sir dhakne ka prachalan:

- Kahin-kahin, purush bina topi/paghdi, khule sir se jaate hain – isse vinamrata maana jata hai. - Mahilaen aksar dupatta ya pallu se sir dhak leti hain – isse maryada aur sharam ka prateek maana jata hai. - Kuch samaj / shetron mein purush bhi topi / paghdi pehen kar jaate hain – wahan ye hi maryada hai.

Iska arth:

• Jain dharm ke hisaab se sabse zaruri hai bhav, vinay aur saaf-suthri, shalinta wali poshaak.
• Jo mandir ki sthanik maryada ho, use hi maan lena chahiye – wahan ke sevak / trustee jaise karne ko kahe, waise hi karein.
• Purush ho ya mahila, niyam alag nahin, mool siddhant ek hi hai: sharam, pavitrata aur ahimsa.

Isliye:

• Agar aapke mandir mein likha hai ya bola jata hai ki “sir dhak kar aana hai / khula rakhna hai”, to usi niyam ka palan karna uchit hai.
• Agar koi likhit niyam nahi hai, to saade kapde, sharir dhaka hua, aur vinamrata ke saath mandir jana hi kaafi hai; sir dhakna ya na dhakna phir wahaan ki parampara aur aapke parivaar ki maryada par nirbhar hoga.