How to deal with the clothes and items from before after bal sadhu diksha
After bāl–sādhu dīkshā, the basic principle is:
> “Now this child is no longer a gṛhasth (householder), so he has no personal possessions at all.”
So, all old clothes and items from before dīkshā should be dealt with in a way that supports vairāgya (detachment), not moha (attachment).
1. What is the right view in Jain dharma?
- After dīkshā, sādhu / sādhu-bāl:
Therefore, all earlier personal items must be left behind as gṛhasth–jeevan.
2. What to do with clothes and items used before dīkshā?
Generally, the family should:
- Not keep them as emotional memories
- Avoid framing, storing, or repeatedly touching them with feeling of “Ye hamāre bāl–sadhu ke kapde the”. - This keeps moha alive for parents and relatives.
- Use them for punya, not for show
- Donate them: - to the poor / needy, - to a Jain trust, hostel, gaushala–related staff, etc. - If very new or special: - they may be offered to a mumukshu, Jain student, or someone who will practically use them, not worship them.
- Do not sell for personal profit with attachment
- Selling is not wrong by itself, but: - avoid doing it with pride and emotional talk like “ye dīkshā se pehle ke kapde the, isliye mehengi keemat…” - If sold, best is to use that money in dharmic way (dāna, āhār–dān, granth–dān, etc.).
3. How is it seen in Digambar / Shvetāmbara tradition?
- Both agree on the core point:
- Differences are more in:
- But in both:
4. Best spirit to keep in mind
For family and relatives:
- Think:
- Whatever you do (donate / give / use), do it with:
In short: After bāl–sadhu dīkshā, all old clothes and personal items should be fully separated from the new ascetic life, treated as parigraha of the past, and peacefully given away in a dhārmik, non‑attached way, not preserved as objects of emotional attachment.