Aap jis rishtे ki baat kar rahe ho:

“Nanima ke papa ke bade bhai ki poti ka ladka”

Rishte ko seedhe shabdon me samjho:

• Aapki Nani ke papa (parnanaji) ke bade bhai = aapke door ke nana‑parnana type rishtedaar.
• Unke bete ki beti (poti) → uski aage ka ladka = aapse kaafi door ka rishta hua.

Yeh bahut door ka rakt‑sambandh hai. Na ye chacha‑mama jaise nazdeeki rishtedaar me aata hai, na first / second cousin jaisa.

Jain drishti se:

• Jain dharm me vivah ka mool dhyan dharm, sadachar, ahimsa, satya par hota hai.
• Najdeeki rakt‑sambandh (jaise bhai‑behen, chacha‑ki‑beti, mama‑ki‑beti jaise bohot paas ke) se vivah se bacha jata hai.
• Aapka jo rishta bataya hai, wo in “mana” rishton se kaafi door hai, isliye sadharan roop se aise rishton me vivah sambhav maana jata hai, agar:

- Dono parivaar raazi hon - Samaj / samajik parampara me bhi koi virodh na ho - Kanuni (Hindu Marriage Act waqera jo aap par lagu hota ho) ke hisab se bhi yeh sapinda ke bahar ho – jo itna door ka rishta hai, aam taur par hota hai.

Practical salah (Jain drishti + samajik roop se):

1. Ghar ke buzurg (Nana‑Nani, Mata‑Pita, bade rishtedaar) se relation ka hisaab clear karvao.
2. Local Jain samaj / panjika (agar hoti ho) se bhi puch sakte ho.
3. Sabse zaroori: dono ka Jain dharm, ahimsa, satya, saiyam, simple jeevan ko maan‑samman dena.

Jain dharm vivaah me “aatmik unnati aur ahimsa” ko sabse upar rakhta hai. Rishtा aapka door ka hai, isliye siddhant se rok nahi, lekin final faisla hamesha parivaar + kanuni niyam dekh kar hi lena chahiye.