Monks never have sex?
In Jain Dharma, the answer is:
- Yes – for Jain monks and nuns, sex is completely forbidden.
What this means in practice
For monks/nuns (sadhu–sadhvi, muni–aryika, etc.):
- No sexual act of any kind.
- No deliberate sexual thoughts, fantasies, or looking at anyone with sensual intention.
- No physical touch done with sensual motive.
- They avoid situations, talks, places, and materials that can excite passions (kashāya), especially sexual passion.
The reason: Sexual desire is considered a strong attachment (rāga). It disturbs inner peace, increases karmic bondage, and blocks the path to liberation (moksha). A monk’s entire life is meant for self‑purification and ending karma, so complete celibacy is essential.
For lay Jains (shravak–shravika) the rule is different:
- They take a limited vow of brahmacharya – sex only with one’s own spouse, with restraint and responsibility.
- So the strict “never at all” applies only to monks and nuns, not to householders.
You can read a simple explanation about vows (including brahmacharya) here