Trust in Jain monks should be based on conduct, discipline, and accountability, not on label alone.

In Jain Dharma, a true monk is expected to follow:

• Ahimsa
• Satya
• Aparigraha
• Brahmacharya
• Anekantavada
• strict restraint in conduct, speech, and association

So if there are disputes, the right Jain approach is:

• Do not generalize about all monks because of some cases.
• Observe behavior carefully over time.
• Keep children under proper parental supervision.
• Prefer organized, transparent settings for any religious learning.
• Choose teachers and monks who are known for humility, discipline, and simplicity.
• If anything feels inappropriate, distance yourself immediately.

Jain Dharma also teaches vivek — right discernment. Trust should never mean blind trust. It should be wise, cautious, and based on dharma and conduct.

If people are becoming selfish, Jainism says the answer is:

• increase self-restraint
• reduce attachment and ego
• practice forgiveness
• keep the child close to satsang, values, and family guidance

A simple Jain principle is: Respect the saintly, but verify the saintliness.

For children, the safest path is always:

• parental involvement
• clear boundaries
• community transparency
• and choosing only those with a long record of pure conduct

If you want, I can also give a Jain checklist for judging whether a monk or religious teacher is trustworthy.