Frustration ko kaise control kare
Jain Dharma ke anusaar frustration ko control karne ke liye krodh, ahankaar, maya aur lobh ko dhire-dhire kam karna bahut mahatvapurn hai. Kuch saral upay:
- Kshama aur samata ka abhyas karein
Jo bhi sthiti aaye, usse “yeh bhi karmon ka phal hai” samajhkar shant rehne ki koshish karein.
- Krodh aate hi maun lein
Turant bolne ya pratikriya dene se bachें. Kuch der chup rehna man ko shaant karta hai.
- Pratikraman aur swadhyay karein
Roz thoda samay apni bhoolon par vichar karna aur Jain granthon ka adhyayan karna man ko sudharta hai.
- Ahimsa ka smaran karein
Frustration mein kisi ko vachan, vichar ya karm se dukh na ho — is baat ka dhyan rakhein.
- Aparigraha ka bhav rakhein
Har cheez par apna niyantran chhodkar “jo mila hai, usme santosh” ka bhav badhayein.
- Navkar Mantra ka smaran karein
Man ko ekagr aur shant karne ke liye Navkar Mantra ka jaap bahut upyogi hai.
- Saans par dhyan karein
Kuch der dhire-dhire saans lein aur chhodein, aur man ko ek jagah tikane ki koshish karein.
- Turanat nirnay na lein
Frustration mein kiya gaya kaam aksar pachhatava deta hai. Thoda rukkar, shant man se vichar karein.
Jain drishti se sabse bada upay hai: apne man ko sakshi bhav se dekhna aur krodh ke badle kshama ko chunna.