If you live in the US and want to find a Jain guru, the safest and most traditional way is to connect through a recognized Jain Sangh, temple, or community center.

Here is a simple path:

1. Visit a Jain temple or center near you

- Look for regular pravachans, swadhyay classes, and Paryushan programs. - Gurus usually visit during chaturmas or special events.

1. Connect with local Jain families and youth groups

- In the US, many Jain communities are organized through regional sanghs. - They can guide you to a respected guru or monk/nun tradition.

1. Attend discourses first

- Listen to pravachans and observe the teacher’s conduct, discipline, and alignment with Jain principles. - In Jain Dharma, character and adherence to Ahimsa, Satya, and Aparigraha are very important.

1. Choose according to your tradition

- Jain practice may differ between Digambar and Shwetambar traditions. - It is good to find a guru within the tradition you follow or wish to study sincerely.

1. Seek a guru through the sangh, not casually

- In Jain Dharma, a guru is not just a spiritual speaker. - A true guru should be learned, disciplined, and rooted in the scriptures and vows.

1. Start with a sadhu-sadhvi or upadhyay/acharya when possible

- If direct contact is difficult, the local sangh can help you get introduced properly. - Respectful approach matters more than speed.

1. Be patient and observe

- A genuine guru will guide you toward self-discipline, non-violence, and detachment. - Avoid anyone who encourages ego, display, or misuse of religion.

In short: connect with a Jain temple or sangh in your area, attend discourses, and let a trusted community guide you to a proper guru.