If a person doesn't feel that we are not possessive over them then only its not an attachment no or yes strictest answer possible
No.
In Jain Dharma, attachment (rāga / moha) is not proved or disproved only by feeling possessive. A person may not show possessiveness outwardly and still have inner attachment.
Strict Jain answer:
- Possessiveness = one form of attachment
- But lack of possessiveness does not automatically mean no attachment
So the strictest answer is: no, not necessarily. True non-attachment means absence of inner clinging, not just absence of possessive behavior.