Does Jainism forbid in a mother and a daughter meeting in heavenly realm no or yes strictest answer possible
No. Jainism does not forbid a mother and daughter from meeting in a heavenly realm.
In Jain doctrine, beings in devaloka are born there according to their karma, and meeting relatives is not prohibited. However, in heaven they are no longer bound by earthly family identity in the same way as on Earth.
So the strict answer is: No, it is not forbidden.