From a Jain perspective, the main values are ahimsa (non-violence), satya (truth), brahmacharya / self-restraint, and aparigraha (non-possessiveness).

Jainism does not focus on condemning a person’s feelings or identity. What matters ethically is whether the relationship is:

• respectful,
• honest,
• non-exploitative,
• non-violent,
• and practiced with self-control.

For lay followers, Jain tradition generally emphasizes sexual conduct within a disciplined, responsible household life. So the tradition is more focused on restraint and purity of conduct than on judging a person.

So, in simple terms:

• As a human relationship: Jainism would stress compassion and non-harm.
• As a sexual/romantic relationship: the Jain ideal is self-control and ethical conduct.
• Traditional Jain household ethics: generally expect disciplined relations within marriage.

If you want the strict Jain answer in one line: Jainism asks you to act with ahimsa and self-restraint, not with hatred or harm.