Answer

Yes, in general it is better to follow the customs of the temple you are visiting, as long as they do not conflict with basic Jain principles or your own vows.

Explanation

Jain temples and sanghs often have different local traditions, rituals, and etiquette. Some customs may vary between:

• Digambar and Shwetambar traditions
• Different temples
• Different local communities

So if you are visiting a temple, the safest and most respectful approach is:

• Observe what devotees there do
• Follow the temple’s prescribed way of worship and conduct
• Speak politely if you are unsure
• Avoid arguing over differences in custom

If your Jain friend gave opposite information, that may simply mean:

• They belong to a different tradition
• Their temple follows a different local practice
• They were referring to a different situation

Spiritual Understanding

In Jain Dharma, humility, respect, and non-conflict are very important. A temple is a place for inner purity, devotion, and restraint. Following local customs with sincerity shows:

• Respect for the Tirthankars
• Respect for the sangh
• Respect for the spirit of ahimsa and harmony

At the same time, one should not blindly follow anything that goes against core Jain values. Discernment is also important.

Takeaway

Follow the temple customs where you visit, but do so with awareness, respect, and simplicity. If uncertain, quietly observe or ask a local trustee or learned person in that temple.