i have extreme guilt of no doing any dharam no pooja since past so many months or maybe years no learning of pratikaman not changing navkar not going to the temple I only feel like doing dharam on my bad sad days but once God gives me happiness I don't do
Answer
Please do not give up on yourself.In Jain Dharma, the fact that you feel regret means your inner conscience is still alive. That is not a failure. That is a sign that your soul still wants the right path.
Do not try to restart with a big promise. Start with one very small act today:
- Sit quietly for 1 minute
- Fold your hands
- Say Navkar Mantra once
- Then say in your heart: “I am sorry. I want to begin again.”
That is enough for today.
Explanation
Right now, your mind is mixing guilt, sadness, and fear, so it feels like “if I cannot do everything, I should do nothing.” That is not the Jain way.Jain Dharma does not ask for perfection first. It asks for:
- awareness
- repentance
- effort
- consistency
Even a very small sincere step is better than waiting for a perfect mood. Do not make dharma dependent only on bad days. Dharma is also for good days, because good days are when you can build strength.
A simple way to restart:
- Morning: Navkar Mantra once
- Night: one short forgiveness prayer in your own words
- Once a day: 1 minute of silence or gratitude
- If possible: visit the temple once, without pressure
Do not think, “I have done too little for too long.” Think, “From this moment, I am beginning again.”
Spiritual Understanding
In Jainism, inner purity matters deeply. Even if external practice has been weak for a long time, sincere repentance can soften the mind and create a new beginning.What matters most is not how much you did in the past month or year, but whether you now have:
- humility
- remorse
- a desire to improve
- a truthful heart
Do not let guilt become another bondage. Let guilt become wakefulness. Not self-hatred, but self-correction.
Takeaway
Today, do one small dharma act only. Not ten. Not a perfect routine. Just one.If you do that every day, your path will slowly open again.
Remember: small sincere practice done daily is stronger than big regret felt silently.