Answer

No, it is not a universal or standard Jain custom to ask directly, “Are you virgin?” before marriage.

Explanation

In Jain Dharma, marriage is generally viewed as a social and family matter, and the emphasis is usually on:

• character
• family values
• conduct
• compatibility
• sincerity in vows and responsibilities

Some traditional families may privately care about chastity or past conduct, but this is a family preference, not a Jain religious rule.

Spiritual Understanding

Jain values place importance on self-discipline, purity of conduct, and respect in relationships. But Jainism does not make a direct question about virginity a formal religious requirement for marriage.

Takeaway

So, in Jain communities, that question may come up in some traditional settings, but it is not a standard Jain practice. The stronger focus is usually on virtue, honesty, and compatibility.