Answer

No. In Jain Dharma, being old or being called a guru does not make inappropriate touching acceptable. Touching your thighs or breasts without your clear permission is not justified.

Explanation

A true Jain guru should follow:

• Brahmacharya — purity and self-restraint
• Ahimsa — non-harming
• Maryada — proper conduct and respect

If the touching is not necessary, respectful, and fully appropriate, it is not in line with Jain ethics.

Spiritual Understanding

A guru is meant to help protect your spiritual well-being, not violate your boundaries. In Jain Dharma, purity of conduct is essential for anyone who teaches or guides others. Age, title, or position never gives permission to ignore dharma.

Takeaway

What you described is not acceptable just because he is Jain or a guru. Your safety and dignity matter. If you feel uncomfortable or unsafe, keep distance and tell a trusted family member or respected Jain elder immediately.