Answer

In many Jain families, after a death in the immediate family, people do not go to the Derasar for 13 days. However, this is a customary family and community practice, and it can vary by sect, locality, and tradition. Some families observe 11 days or follow the period up to the 13th-day ritual.

Explanation

This is usually followed as a period of mourning and restraint. It is not always the same in every Jain community.

Commonly:

• Immediate family members may avoid Derasar for 13 days
• Some traditions may follow 11 days
• Some families follow their own local sangh or kul parampara

Spiritual Understanding

In Jain Dharma, the main purpose is to maintain shanti, maryada, and inner discipline during the mourning period. At the same time, Jainism teaches detachment and respect for the soul, so local custom is usually followed with sincerity and humility.

Takeaway

The safest general answer is: usually 13 days, but please follow your family and local Jain community tradition if it differs.