When i am in samayik i keeo thinking about worldly matters like office and all
Answer
This is very common. During Samayik, the mind often brings up office work, family matters, worries, and unfinished tasks. Do not feel guilty or discouraged.
In Jain Dharma, Samayik is a practice of gradually training the soul to become steady in samata — equanimity. The mind will wander, but your effort is to gently bring it back again and again.
Explanation
When worldly thoughts come during Samayik:
- Do not fight with the thoughts.
- Do not become angry with yourself.
- Simply notice: “This is a worldly thought.”
- Then gently return to your sutra, mantra, breath, or awareness of the soul.
A helpful approach is:
- Before Samayik, mentally tell yourself: “For this time, office and worldly duties are set aside.”
- Keep the phone away and reduce distractions.
- Begin with Navkar Mantra slowly and with attention.
- If thoughts come, return to Navkar Mantra or the feeling: “I am a soul, separate from worldly roles.”
- After Samayik, if needed, write down office tasks so the mind feels less burdened.
Spiritual Understanding
Samayik does not mean the mind becomes pure immediately. It means you are practicing separation from attachment, anxiety, likes, dislikes, and worldly identity.
Even if the mind wanders many times, every time you bring it back with awareness, that is spiritual effort. This effort weakens raag and dwesh and strengthens inner discipline.
The important thing is not to measure Samayik by “Did I have thoughts or not?” Instead, measure it by:
- Did I sincerely try?
- Did I return to awareness?
- Did I reduce attachment for that time?
- Did I sit with humility and devotion?
Takeaway
Worldly thoughts during Samayik are not failure. They are an opportunity to practice detachment. Gently return again and again to Navkar Mantra, the soul, and the feeling of equanimity. This sincere effort itself is valuable in Jain Dharma.