Why should I not touch a women when she is on periods
Answer
In Jain Dharma, the idea of avoiding physical contact with a woman during menstruation is traditionally connected with rules of shuddhi and religious discipline, especially around worship, temple rituals, food preparation for religious purposes, and certain vows.
However, it should be understood with respect and sensitivity: menstruation is a natural bodily process, not a sign that a woman is spiritually inferior or impure as a soul.
Explanation
In traditional Jain practice, menstruation is treated as a time when a woman may avoid certain religious activities such as:
- Going to the temple for worship
- Touching idols, scriptures, or ritual items
- Preparing food for special religious use
- Participating in some formal rituals
The reason is usually explained through the Jain emphasis on:
- External cleanliness for religious rituals
- Discipline and restraint in conduct
- Respect for traditional maryada followed in families and sangh
- Rest for the woman, as menstruation can involve physical discomfort
But this should never become a reason to insult, shame, isolate, or mistreat her.
Spiritual Understanding
According to Jain philosophy, every soul is pure in its true nature. The body goes through natural changes, but the soul is not made impure by bodily processes.
So the traditional restriction is mainly about ritual conduct, not about the worth or dignity of the woman.
Touching in ordinary daily life should be approached with compassion, respect, and family tradition. If a household follows certain religious maryada, it should be followed gently, without harshness or discrimination.
Takeaway
You should not view a menstruating woman as “bad” or “untouchable.” In Jain tradition, certain restrictions are connected to ritual purity and discipline, but they must always be practiced with kindness, dignity, and respect.