but if it is very important can i masterbate in paryushan
Answer
In Jain Dharma, during Paryushan, masturbation is not considered appropriate because Paryushan is a sacred time for self-control, purity, repentance, and reducing passions.
If it feels very difficult, the Jain approach is not to feel hopeless, but to practice sanyam gradually and sincerely.
Explanation
Paryushan is meant for:
- Brahmacharya — control over sexual thoughts and actions
- Tapasya — discipline of body and mind
- Pratikraman — repentance for mistakes
- Kshama — purification through forgiveness
Masturbation strengthens attachment to bodily pleasure, so it goes against the spirit of Paryushan.
Spiritual Understanding
If the urge becomes strong, try to redirect your mind:
- Do Navkar Mantra calmly
- Change your environment immediately
- Avoid triggering content or thoughts
- Do samayik, pratikraman, reading, or seva
- Take a walk or sit with family/community
If you fail, do not hate yourself. In Jain Dharma, guilt alone is not the goal. The goal is awareness, repentance, and improvement.
Takeaway
During Paryushan, you should sincerely try to avoid masturbation and practice brahmacharya. If you slip, do pratikraman, ask for inner strength, and continue your spiritual effort with humility.