Okay, so why are you doing Pratik coming? What if there we are going to ask forgiveness and get attached towards things, but what we get the talks about my future, my life, my career like we are into a life where you know we have certain dreams career att
Answer
In Jain Dharma, Pratikraman is done to become aware of our mistakes, ask forgiveness, and purify the soul from wrong thoughts, words, and actions.
Your question is very genuine: If we are asking forgiveness and trying to reduce attachment, then what about our future, career, dreams, and goals?
Jain Dharma does not say that a householder must stop living, stop working, or stop having responsibilities. The point is not to give up all action suddenly. The point is to reduce inner attachment, ego, greed, anger, and obsession while doing our duties.
Explanation
There is a difference between:
- Having a goal
- Being attached to the goal
Having a goal means: “I will study, work hard, build my career, support my family, and live responsibly.”
Attachment means: “My happiness, identity, ego, and peace depend only on this result. If I don’t get it, I am broken, angry, jealous, or lost.”
Jain Dharma teaches us to live with awareness:
- Work hard, but do not become arrogant.
- Have dreams, but do not harm others for them.
- Earn money, but do not become greedy.
- Plan your future, but remember that the soul’s ultimate purpose is liberation.
Pratikraman helps us check ourselves:
- Did I hurt anyone while chasing success?
- Did I lie, manipulate, or cheat?
- Did I become jealous of someone else’s progress?
- Did I become too proud of my achievements?
- Did I forget compassion, humility, and self-control?
So Pratikraman is not against your career. It purifies the way you pursue your career.
Spiritual Understanding
In Jain Dharma, attachment is one of the causes of bondage of karma. But for a householder, life includes family, work, education, business, and society. That is why Jain Dharma gives the path of gradual purification.
You do not have to suddenly reject everything. Instead, slowly transform your inner attitude.
For example:
- Wrong attitude: “I must get this at any cost.”
- Better attitude: “I will give my best with honesty and discipline, but I will not lose my peace or values.”
- Wrong attitude: “My career is everything.”
- Better attitude: “My career is important, but my soul, character, and dharma are higher.”
- Wrong attitude: “If I fail, my life is over.”
- Better attitude: “Success and failure are temporary. I will learn, improve, and remain spiritually balanced.”
This is the inner change Pratikraman supports.
Takeaway
Pratikraman does not mean you should stop dreaming or stop building your future.
It means:
- Dream without greed.
- Work without ego.
- Earn without dishonesty.
- Progress without harming others.
- Live in the world, but do not let the world fully control your soul.
In simple words: Do your best for your future, but keep your soul above your ambitions.