can I masterbate in Paryushan
Answer
In Jain Dharma, masturbation during Paryushan is not considered appropriate.
Paryushan is a sacred time for:
- self-control
- purity of thoughts
- reducing passions
- pratikraman and repentance
- moving closer to the soul
Sexual activity, including masturbation, increases attachment, desire, and sensual pleasure, so it goes against the spiritual mood of Paryushan.
Explanation
Jain Dharma teaches brahmacharya, meaning control over sexual desires. For monks and nuns, brahmacharya is complete celibacy. For householders, it is practiced according to their stage of life and capacity.
During Paryushan, even householders try to observe more discipline than usual. Many people take vows to avoid:
- sexual activity
- sensual entertainment
- anger, pride, deceit, and greed
- food indulgence
- careless thoughts and actions
So if you are observing Paryushan sincerely, it is best to avoid masturbation.
Spiritual Understanding
The purpose of Paryushan is not guilt, shame, or fear. It is about becoming more aware and peaceful.
If you feel the urge, try to:
- pause and breathe
- do Navkar Mantra
- read or listen to Jain teachings
- keep yourself busy in seva, study, or pratikraman
- avoid triggers like sexual content
If you already did it, do not hate yourself. Calmly do alochana, ask for forgiveness, and restart with better awareness.
Takeaway
During Paryushan, it is spiritually better to practice brahmacharya and self-control. Avoid masturbation, not out of shame, but as a sincere effort to purify your mind and strengthen your soul.