Answer

Haan, Porshad / Paushadh mein wife ya girlfriend ko yaad karna uchit nahi maana jata, agar woh yaad raag, moh, attraction, ya kaam-bhaav se judi ho.

Paushadh ka uddeshya hota hai kuch samay ke liye grihasth jeevan se virakti lekar sadhu-sadhvi jaisa jeevan jeena.

Explanation

Paushadh mein vyakti:

• Sansarik chintaon se door rehne ka prayatna karta hai
• Vishay-bhog aur sambandhon ke moh ko kam karta hai
• Man, vachan, kaya ko shant aur sanyamit rakhta hai
• Dharm-dhyan, svadhyay, pratikraman, jaap mein mann lagata hai

Isliye wife, girlfriend, romantic relation, ya physical/emotional attachment ki yaad aana agar moh badhaye, to use turant rok kar mann ko dharm mein lagana chahiye.

Spiritual Understanding

Jain Dharma mein Paushadh ka bhav hai:

• Thode samay ke liye parigrah aur raag se door rehna
• Brahmacharya ka palan karna
• Atma ki shuddhi par dhyan dena

Agar mann mein aisi yaad aaye, to guilty hone ke bajay shant bhav se socho:

“Yeh raag-moh ka vichar hai, mujhe apni atma aur dharm-dhyan mein sthir hona hai.”

Takeaway

Paushadh mein wife/girlfriend ko romantic ya moh-bhaav se yaad nahi karna chahiye. Mann bhatak jaaye to Namokar Mantra, svadhyay, ya atma-chintan mein dhyan lagana chahiye.