Answer

Haan, Porshad/Paushadh me wife, girlfriend, life partner ya kisi bhi vyakti ki yaad aa sakti hai. Sirf yaad aa jana se Porshad “bekar” nahi hota.

Lekin Porshad ka bhav yeh hota hai ki us samay vyakti sansarik raag-dwesh, moh, attachment aur bhog-vilas ke vicharon se jitna ho sake utna door rehkar dharm, samayik, swadhyay, pratikraman, jap, dhyan aur atma-chintan kare.

Explanation

Aap unko yeh samjha sakti ho:

• “Mujhe yaad karna galat nahi hai, par Porshad ke samay mann ko dharm me lagane ki koshish karni chahiye.”
• “Ek din ke liye bhulana zaroori nahi, par attachment wale vichar kam karna zaroori hai.”
• “Porshad ka matlab rishta todna nahi, balki kuch samay ke liye atma ki taraf dhyan dena hai.”

Jain Dharma me raag yani attachment ko kam karna spiritual progress ke liye mahatvapurn maana gaya hai. Isliye Porshad me prem ko shuddh bhav me badalne ki koshish hoti hai—possessiveness ya emotional dependency nahi.

Spiritual Understanding

Agar Porshad ke dauran unhe aapki yaad aaye, to woh mann me shubh bhav kar sakte hain:

• “Meri life partner bhi dharm marg par chale.”
• “Hum dono ka jeevan ahimsa, satya aur sadachar se bhara ho.”
• “Mera mann ab dharm, samayik aur atma-chintan me lage.”

Is tarah yaad ko attachment se hata kar mangal bhavna me badla ja sakta hai.

Takeaway

Porshad bekar tab nahi hota jab kisi ki yaad aa jaye. Porshad ka asli prayas yeh hai ki mann ko baar-baar sansar se hata kar atma aur dharm ki taraf lagaya jaye. Aap unhe pyaar se samjha sakti ho: “Mujhe bhulna nahi hai, bas Porshad ke samay dharm ko priority deni hai.”