After savantsari, we do Michami Dukadam to all our relatives and other jains so should we also say Michami Dukadam to the non jain people such as neighbors, classmates,etc
Answer
Yes, you may respectfully say Michhami Dukkadam to non-Jain people such as neighbors, classmates, friends, coworkers, or anyone you may have knowingly or unknowingly hurt.
Explanation
Michhami Dukkadam means:
“May any wrong I have done be forgiven.”
In Jain Dharma, the spirit of Kshamapana is not limited only to Jains or relatives. Jainism teaches forgiveness, humility, and non-violence toward all living beings. So if we ask forgiveness only from Jains but ignore others, the feeling of universal forgiveness becomes incomplete.
You can say it in a way they understand, for example:
- “Michhami Dukkadam. If I have hurt you knowingly or unknowingly, by words, actions, or thoughts, please forgive me.”
- Or simply: “As part of our Jain tradition, we ask forgiveness from everyone. If I have ever hurt you in any way, please forgive me.”
Spiritual Understanding
Samvatsari Pratikraman and Kshamapana are meant to reduce ego, anger, pride, deceit, and attachment. Asking forgiveness from non-Jains also helps us practice true humility and universal friendliness.
The important thing is not whether the other person is Jain or non-Jain. The important thing is our inner feeling of:
- forgiveness,
- humility,
- friendship,
- and purification of the soul.
Takeaway
Yes, saying Michhami Dukkadam to non-Jain people is appropriate and spiritually meaningful, especially when done with sincerity and a simple explanation.