what are the basics as a jain i should know and follow in my daily routine also teach my 2 year old
Answer
As a Jain, the daily basics are to live with:
- Ahimsa – non-violence in thought, speech, and action
- Satya – truthfulness
- Achaurya – not taking what is not given
- Brahmacharya – self-control and purity
- Aparigraha – limiting attachment and possessions
For a householder, these are practiced in a practical way through kindness, honesty, simplicity, vegetarian food, prayer, forgiveness, and self-discipline.
Daily Routine for a Jain Householder
- Start the day with Namokar Mantra
Recite the Namokar Mantra with devotion and calmness. - Practice Ahimsa in food
Eat vegetarian food and avoid harm as much as possible. Many Jains avoid root vegetables according to their family tradition. - Be careful with speech
Speak truthfully, gently, and without anger. - Do small acts of compassion
Avoid hurting insects or animals. Be kind to people, animals, and nature. - Limit unnecessary desires
Buy and use only what is needed. Practice contentment. - Do Samayik or quiet reflection if possible
Even 5–10 minutes of peaceful sitting, prayer, or self-reflection is valuable. - Before sleeping, ask for forgiveness
Reflect on the day and think: “If I hurt anyone by thought, word, or action, may I be forgiven.” - Practice forgiveness
Do not hold anger. Jain Dharma gives great importance to kshama, forgiveness.
Simple Things to Teach Your 2-Year-Old
At age 2, teaching should be gentle, loving, and through example. A child learns more from what parents do than what parents say.
- Namokar Mantra
Let your child hear it daily. You can slowly teach small parts through repetition. - Say “Jai Jinendra”
Teach them to greet family and elders with “Jai Jinendra.” - Be kind to all living beings
Teach simple words like: “Don’t hurt ants,” “Be gentle,” “Animals feel pain too.” - Fold hands during prayer
Even if they do not understand fully, the habit of respect begins early. - Visit the Derasar
Take them for short, peaceful visits. Let them observe quietly. - Practice sharing
Sharing toys and food is a simple beginning of aparigraha. - Teach sorry and thank you
This builds humility, forgiveness, and gratitude. - Use Jain stories
Tell simple stories of Bhagwan Mahavir’s compassion, kindness, courage, and forgiveness.
Simple Daily Routine for Your Child
- Morning: Say “Jai Jinendra” and fold hands.
- Before food: Say a small prayer or Namokar Mantra together.
- During play: Teach gentle hands and no hurting.
- Evening: Say Namokar Mantra or listen to it.
- Before sleep: Say “Micchami Dukkadam” in a simple way, like “Sorry if I hurt anyone.”
Spiritual Understanding
Jain Dharma is not only rituals; it is a way of living with awareness. Every day we try to reduce harm, reduce anger, reduce greed, and purify the soul.
For a young child, the goal is not strict rules. The goal is to create loving impressions of Jain values:
- kindness
- gentleness
- prayer
- respect
- truthfulness
- forgiveness
Takeaway
Live Jain Dharma simply every day: pray, be kind, eat with awareness, speak gently, forgive, and reduce attachment. For your 2-year-old, teach through love, repetition, stories, and your own example.