No Masturbation till marriage ka pachkaan
Answer
“Pachkhaan” Jain Dharma mein ek gambhir sankalp hota hai. Aap is bhavna se pachkhaan le sakte hain:
“Main vivah tak brahmacharya ka palan karne ka sankalp leta/leti hoon. Main man, vachan aur kaya se kaam-vikaar se bachne ka poora prayatna karunga/karungi.”
Explanation
Jain Dharma mein Brahmacharya paanch mahavraton/anuvraton mein se ek mahatvapurna vrat hai. Grihasth ke liye iska arth hota hai:
- Indriya-sanyam rakhna
- Kaam-vikaar ko badhane wali cheezon se bachna
- Galat drishti, galat vichar aur galat aacharan se door rehna
- Apni urja ko dharm, adhyayan, seva aur sadhana mein lagana
Agar aap “no masturbation till marriage” ka sankalp lena chahte hain, to ise brahmacharya-vrat ki bhavna ke roop mein lena uchit hai.
Spiritual Understanding
Brahmacharya ka uddeshya sirf sharirik niyantran nahi, balki man ki shuddhi, indriyon par vijay, aur atma ki pragati hai. Jain Dharma mein sanyam ko moksh-marg ka aadhar mana gaya hai.
Takeaway
Pachkhaan shraddha, samajh aur dradhata se lena chahiye. Agar sambhav ho, to aap apne Guru Bhagwant, sadhu-sadhvi ji, ya gyani shravak-shravika se margdarshan lekar hi aisa sankalp lein.