Answer

In Jain Dharma, masturbation is considered against brahmacharya and is connected with kaam-vikaar — sexual passion. During Paryushan, when we especially try to purify thoughts, words, and actions, it is spiritually more serious because the days are meant for self-control, pratikraman, forgiveness, and inner discipline.

But please understand: you are 14, and feeling sexual urges at this age is common. Jain Dharma does not teach you to hate yourself. It teaches you to become aware, repent sincerely, and improve.

Explanation

In Jain understanding, paap happens not only from the physical act, but also from:

• Intention
• Passion
• Attachment
• Repeated indulgence
• Lack of self-control

So yes, it is a sinful activity from the Jain ethical view, especially during Paryushan. But the correct response is not panic or guilt. The correct response is:

• Do sincere alochana internally.
• Do pratikraman if you follow it.
• Ask forgiveness from Arihant, Siddha, Guru, and your own soul.
• Make a small practical vow to control yourself better.

Spiritual Understanding

Paryushan is a time to reduce raag, dvesh, and passions. If you made a mistake, use it as a chance to become more disciplined.

You can pray simply:

“Michchhami Dukkadam. I sincerely repent for this weakness and will try to improve with awareness and self-control.”

Try these steps:

• Avoid sexual content completely.
• Do not stay alone with phone/internet at night.
• Keep your mind engaged in study, seva, jaap, or reading Jain teachings.
• When the urge comes, change place immediately, wash your face, do deep breathing, or recite Navkar Mantra.
• Do not give up if you fail once. Start again with sincerity.

Takeaway

Yes, Jain Dharma considers it paap and against brahmacharya, especially during Paryushan. But do not fall into fear or self-hatred. Do repentance, pratikraman, and a sincere resolve to improve. Spiritual growth means honestly recognizing weakness and moving toward self-control.