then what is the difference between this uttam kshama on day 1 and the day after 10 days i.e kshama bhavna
Answer
The main difference is:
- Uttam Kshama is the first Dharma of Das Lakshan Parva, focused on developing the supreme virtue of forgiveness.
- Kshama Bhavana at the end, such as on Kshamavani / Samvatsari-related forgiveness practice, is the actual expression of forgiveness toward all living beings by asking and giving forgiveness.
In simple words:
Uttam Kshama = learning and cultivating forgiveness as a virtue.
Kshama Bhavana = expressing forgiveness in practice toward others.
Explanation
During Das Lakshan Parva, the first day is dedicated to Uttam Kshama. It means “supreme forgiveness.” On this day, the focus is inward:
- reducing anger,
- letting go of revenge,
- remaining peaceful even when hurt,
- understanding that anger harms the soul,
- cultivating compassion and tolerance.
It is a spiritual quality connected with conquering krodh, anger.
After the ten days, the practice of Kshama Bhavana is more outward and practical. One reflects:
- “If I have hurt anyone knowingly or unknowingly, by mind, speech, or body, may they forgive me.”
- “I forgive all beings.”
- “I hold no enmity toward anyone.”
This is often expressed through the feeling of:
Micchami Dukkadam — may my wrong actions be forgiven.
Spiritual Understanding
Both are connected, but their emphasis is different.
- Uttam Kshama teaches the principle: forgiveness is a noble quality of the soul.
- Kshama Bhavana applies the principle: I actually ask forgiveness and forgive others.
So, the first day prepares the heart. The final forgiveness practice purifies relationships and reduces karmic bondage caused by anger, ego, deceit, and attachment.
Takeaway
Uttam Kshama is the virtue.
Kshama Bhavana is the living practice of that virtue.
One is the inner cultivation of forgiveness; the other is its humble expression toward all beings.