See I am Mastuburating I want to stop day after after yesterday I said you that what should I do Pratikaman aur samaik so How I can able to stop these I can reduce my pap ??
Answer
Yes, you can reduce this pāp by sincerely stopping the habit step by step, doing Pratikraman, practicing Samayik, and keeping your mind away from causes of desire.
In Jain Dharma, control of sexual desire is part of Brahmacharya. For householders, Brahmacharya means living with self-control, purity of thoughts, and discipline over the senses.
What You Can Do Practically
- Do sincere Pratikraman: Ask forgiveness for wrong thoughts and actions, and take a firm but realistic resolution.
- Take a small Pachchakkhan: For example: “For the next 24 hours, I will not do this act.” Start with one day, then increase slowly.
- Do Samayik daily if possible: Even 48 minutes of calm sitting, mantra, and reflection helps control the mind.
- Chant Namokar Mantra: When desire arises, immediately chant Namokar Mantra with attention.
- Avoid triggers: Stay away from sexual videos, images, social media content, and lonely situations that increase desire.
- Keep the body active: Do walking, exercise, study, seva, or useful work. An idle mind becomes weak easily.
- Do not hate yourself: Guilt alone will not purify karma. True repentance, awareness, and effort purify the soul.
Simple Daily Plan
- Morning: Namokar Mantra and small vow for the day.
- Daytime: Avoid bad content and keep yourself busy.
- Evening: Pratikraman or at least sincere Alochana in your own words.
- Night: Keep phone away before sleeping and remember Arihant Bhagwan.
If You Fall Again
Do not think, “Now everything is ruined.” Instead:
- Accept the mistake honestly.
- Do Pratikraman.
- Understand what triggered it.
- Make a stronger plan for next time.
Spiritual Understanding
In Jain Dharma, pāp reduces through:
- Repentance for wrong action
- Stopping the cause of the mistake
- Self-control over body, speech, and mind
- Right intention and continuous effort
Your desire to stop is already a good spiritual beginning. Do not become hopeless. With daily Pratikraman, Samayik, Namokar Mantra, and avoiding triggers, control will slowly become stronger.
Takeaway
Take one-day vows, avoid triggers, do Pratikraman sincerely, and keep trying without self-hatred. Jain Dharma teaches that sincere effort toward self-control is a powerful step toward reducing pāp and purifying the soul.