Answer

During Paryushan, it is best to avoid kissing and other sensual or romantic physical expressions.

Explanation

Paryushan is a sacred time for:

• self-control
• purity of thoughts
• reduction of passions
• forgiveness
• spiritual discipline

In Jain Dharma, sensual attachment and indulgence are connected with rāga — attachment. During Paryushan, one tries to reduce rāga, dveṣa, anger, ego, deceit, greed, and bodily pleasures as much as possible.

So while kissing may be seen socially as affection, during Paryushan it is spiritually better to practice restraint.

Spiritual Understanding

Paryushan is not only about food restrictions. It is about calming the mind, controlling desires, and moving closer to the soul’s pure nature.

For householders, Jain Dharma does not demand the same discipline as monks and nuns, but during holy days, extra restraint is encouraged.

Takeaway

If you are observing Paryushan sincerely, it is best to avoid kissing during these days and focus on inner purity, self-control, prayer, forgiveness, and spiritual reflection.