Answer

In Jain Dharma, if your sister has passed away, it is generally better not to go for Jain pooja immediately, especially while you are in the period of mourning and emotional impurity.

Instead, you may do quiet spiritual reflection at home, such as:

• Reciting the Navkar Mantra
• Doing samayik if you are able
• Praying for the departed soul’s onward spiritual journey
• Maintaining peace, forgiveness, and detachment

Explanation

In Jain tradition, after the death of a close family member, the family observes a period of mourning. During this time, many Jains avoid:

• Temple pooja
• Festive religious activities
• Elaborate rituals
• Celebratory gatherings

Even if you are physically in New Zealand and your sister passed away in India, the relationship is close, so it is respectful to observe mourning according to your family’s Jain tradition.

Different Jain communities may follow different customs regarding the number of days and exact restrictions. It is best to ask your local Jain sangh, elder, or family guru for the exact practice followed in your tradition.

Spiritual Understanding

Jain Dharma teaches that the soul continues its journey according to its karma. At such a time, the most meaningful religious practice is not external celebration, but inner purity:

• Equanimity
• Forgiveness
• Prayerful remembrance
• Non-attachment
• Peaceful chanting of Navkar Mantra

You may sincerely pray:

“May her soul progress toward peace, purity, and liberation.”

Takeaway

It is better to avoid temple pooja during immediate mourning. Do simple, peaceful spiritual practice at home and follow the guidance of your family tradition or local Jain sangh.