I want to stop mastuburate what should I do i am not able to and how I can reduce pap
Answer
In Jain Dharma, sexual self-control is part of Brahmacharya, and controlling masturbation can help reduce attachment, passions, and pāp karmas. But do not fall into hopelessness or self-hatred. Start with sincere effort, discipline, repentance, and gradual improvement.
What You Can Do
- Do daily Pratikraman or sincere repentance
Ask forgiveness for weakness and make a fresh resolve. - Take a small vow
Instead of saying “I will never do it again,” begin with: “I will control myself today.” Then increase gradually. - Avoid triggers
Stay away from pornography, sexual content, unnecessary social media scrolling, and private situations that increase desire. - Keep your body and mind busy
Exercise, study, seva, reading Jain scriptures, and meaningful work reduce idle thoughts. - Practice mantra and prayer
When urges come, chant Navkar Mantra with focus. Sit calmly, breathe slowly, and let the urge pass. - Change the situation immediately
If the urge is strong, get up, leave the room, wash your face, go near family, or do another activity. - Eat with discipline
Avoid overeating, heavy food at night, and stimulating habits. Jain discipline teaches control over taste also supports control over passions. - Sleep properly
Late nights and loneliness often increase weakness. Keep a fixed sleep routine.
How To Reduce Pāp
- Do Alochana: honestly accept the mistake before your inner self or Guru if possible.
- Do Pratikraman: repent with humility.
- Do Pratyakhyan: take a vow to avoid it for a fixed period.
- Practice Samayik: sit in equanimity and purify the mind.
- Increase good conduct: compassion, truthfulness, forgiveness, simplicity, and restraint.
Spiritual Understanding
In Jain Dharma, pāp increases mainly through kaṣāyas like attachment, craving, carelessness, and lack of self-control. If you fall, do not think, “I am bad.” Think, “This is my weakness, and I will purify it with awareness and discipline.”
Every sincere effort toward self-control is spiritually valuable.
Takeaway
Do not give up. Begin with one-day control, avoid triggers, chant Navkar Mantra, do repentance, and slowly strengthen Brahmacharya. If it feels compulsive or uncontrollable, also speak to a trusted elder, counselor, or doctor for support. This is not against Jain Dharma; taking help to regain self-control is wise.