What do i do i am financially tight right now in abroad and i am getting job as front of house in a cafe where i have to serve them dishes which are vegetarian and non vegetarian according to jain perspective what should I do i need momey as well
Answer
From a Jain perspective, serving non-vegetarian food is spiritually problematic because it becomes indirect participation in himsa. At the same time, Jain Dharma also understands real-life difficulty and teaches us to reduce harm as much as possible while keeping right intention and gradually moving toward a purer livelihood.
If you urgently need money, try your best to avoid a role where you directly serve or handle non-vegetarian food. But if you have no immediate alternative and must take it temporarily for survival, treat it as a temporary emergency situation, continue searching actively for a more suitable job, and maintain inner repentance and awareness.
Explanation
In Jain Dharma, livelihood should ideally avoid work connected with violence, killing, meat, eggs, alcohol, and other harmful activities.
A cafe job where you serve both vegetarian and non-vegetarian dishes may involve:
- Handling or serving meat-based food
- Supporting a business that sells non-vegetarian items
- Indirectly encouraging consumption of food involving violence
So spiritually, it is not ideal.
However, Jain ethics also recognizes that householders live in practical conditions. The important thing is to reduce involvement in himsa wherever possible.
You can consider these options:
- Ask the employer if you can work only on vegetarian orders, coffee, billing, cleaning tables, or cashier duties.
- Look for jobs in vegetarian cafes, grocery stores, retail shops, warehouses, delivery, tutoring, admin work, temples, Indian/Jain community networks, or remote work.
- If you must accept temporarily, keep it only as a short-term survival job, not a long-term career.
- Keep applying daily for more suitable work.
- Avoid promoting or recommending non-vegetarian dishes if possible.
- Maintain your own Jain discipline strictly: vegetarian/Jain food, no alcohol, no careless lifestyle.
Spiritual Understanding
Jain Dharma teaches both:
- Ahimsa — avoid harm as much as possible
- Apramatta bhav — live with awareness and carefulness
If you are forced by financial hardship, do not become careless or justify the act as fully okay. Instead, keep humility:
- “This is not ideal.”
- “I am doing this due to difficulty.”
- “I will move toward a better livelihood as soon as possible.”
You may also do daily Michchhami Dukkadam in your heart for any indirect himsa caused knowingly or unknowingly, and pray for strength to find a purer livelihood.
Takeaway
Ideally, avoid this job if you can. If there is truly no other option and you need money for survival, you may take it temporarily with awareness, repentance, and a firm effort to leave as soon as a more Jain-appropriate job becomes available.