Answer

In Jain Dharma, sexual activity before marriage and having sexual relations with many partners is generally considered spiritually harmful because it increases attachment, passion, desire, and carelessness of mind.

For a male, it is not judged only as “bad” socially, but understood as something that can disturb self-control, inner purity, and spiritual progress.

Explanation

Jain Dharma teaches control over passions such as:

• Rāga — attachment and attraction
• Kāma — sensual desire
• Moha — delusion and emotional bondage
• Asamyam — lack of self-restraint

For monks and nuns, complete celibacy is required.

For householders, Jain Dharma teaches brahmacharya-vrata in a limited form, meaning sexual discipline, loyalty, and restraint within married life. Therefore, casual sexual behavior or physical intimacy with many people is discouraged.

Kissing with lustful intention is also considered a form of sensual indulgence because it excites desire and attachment.

Spiritual Understanding

The main issue is not “male or female.” Jain Dharma applies self-restraint to everyone.

Such actions may lead to:

• Increase of desires
• Emotional attachment
• Jealousy, possessiveness, or guilt
• Loss of mental peace
• More karmic bondage through passions

Jain Dharma encourages purity in thought, speech, and body. A person should treat others with respect, not as objects of pleasure.

Takeaway

Yes, from the Jain point of view, sex and lustful kissing with many girls before marriage is not considered spiritually good. A Jain way of life encourages self-control, respect, responsibility, and purity of conduct.