Answer

Yes, in some Jain and Indian family traditions, on Dussehra / Vijayadashami, people place or give grass-like sacred leaves to family members, sometimes near the ear, head, or in the hand.

However, this is not a core Jain scriptural ritual. It is more of a regional and family custom.

Explanation

What you may be referring to is often connected with giving “sona” — usually leaves of the Apta/Shami tree in some regions. In certain communities, these leaves are exchanged as a symbol of:

• good wishes,
• respect,
• prosperity,
• victory of good conduct over wrong conduct.

In some families, elders or siblings may place it near the ear or on the head as a blessing-like gesture. The exact practice differs by region and family.

Jain Understanding

From a Jain Dharma perspective, Dussehra is not primarily about weapons, war, or victory over another person. A Jain understanding would focus more on:

• victory over inner enemies such as anger, ego, deceit, and greed,
• practicing forgiveness and humility,
• following ahimsa and self-control,
• strengthening right faith, right knowledge, and right conduct.

Takeaway

So yes, your memory is likely of a family or regional Dussehra custom involving sacred leaves or grass-like sticks. It is acceptable as a cultural practice, but in Jain Dharma the deeper meaning should be inner victory over passions, not merely the outer ritual.