Answer

In Jain Dharma, a Muni’s conduct is based on strict vows, discipline, and spiritual purity. If a Muni allowed one person to touch his feet but told another person, “You don’t touch my feet,” we should not quickly judge the Muni as being partial or disrespectful.

There may be reasons connected to maryada (discipline), sanyam (restraint), health, situation, or the Muni’s intention to guide that person properly.

Explanation

In Jain tradition, touching the feet of Sadhus or Munis is not the main focus. The deeper purpose is:

• To develop humility
• To bow with devotion
• To respect their renunciation
• To receive inspiration for dharma

Many Munis may avoid physical touch because Jain monks observe very careful discipline regarding the body, attachment, and contact. Some may permit certain forms of vandan in one situation and stop it in another situation depending on circumstances.

If the Muni told you not to touch his feet, you can still respectfully do:

• Fold hands and say “Michhami Dukkadam” or “Jai Jinendra”
• Do vandan from a distance
• Bow mentally with humility
• Listen to his teachings sincerely

Spiritual Understanding

The blessing of a Muni is not dependent only on physically touching feet. True blessing comes through:

• Right faith
• Humility
• Following dharma
• Reducing ego and hurt feelings

If you felt hurt, try to keep calm. In Jain Dharma, we are encouraged to see such moments as an opportunity to reduce pride and expectations.

Takeaway

Do not feel rejected. Respect the Muni’s maryada. You can receive spiritual benefit even without touching the feet, through sincere devotion, humility, and following Jain teachings.