So I decided to never visit derasar mostly but pray in side my home
Answer
Yes, you can pray at home with devotion. In Jain Dharma, sincere bhāv — inner purity, humility, and reverence — is very important.
However, completely avoiding Derasar without a valid reason is generally not encouraged, because Derasar is a sacred place that helps strengthen devotion, discipline, and spiritual focus.
Explanation
Praying at home can include:
- Navkar Mantra
- Samayik
- Pratikraman
- Stavan or Stuti
- Reading or listening to Jain teachings
- Quiet reflection on the qualities of Arihant, Siddha, Sadhu, and Dharma
Derasar is special because:
- It reminds us of the pure qualities of Tirthankars.
- It creates a peaceful spiritual environment.
- It encourages humility, discipline, and regular worship.
- It connects us with Jain Sangh and tradition.
If you cannot go often due to health, distance, family duties, or genuine difficulty, then praying at home with sincerity is still spiritually meaningful.
But if the reason is laziness, dislike, ego, or loss of faith, then it is better to reflect gently and try to visit Derasar at least sometimes.
Spiritual Understanding
In Jain Dharma, the true purpose of worship is not just physical attendance, but inner transformation:
- less anger
- less ego
- less attachment
- more compassion
- more self-control
- more awareness of the soul
A person may go to Derasar daily but remain full of ego; another may pray at home with deep humility. The inner bhāv matters greatly. Still, Derasar supports and strengthens that bhāv.
Takeaway
Pray at home sincerely, but do not reject Derasar completely if you are able to go. Even occasional visits with pure devotion can support your spiritual growth.