Why it is asked to not even look at idols aur gurus during first 3 days of periods
Answer
In Jain tradition, during the first 3 days of periods, women are often advised not to do Darshan of idols, touch religious objects, enter temple area, or go near Guru Bhagwant because this time is considered a period of ashuchi / bodily impurity and physical discomfort.
This does not mean the woman is spiritually inferior or sinful. It is mainly connected with:
- traditional rules of ritual purity,
- rest for the body,
- avoiding temple or Guru-seva activities during a physically sensitive time,
- maintaining maryada of religious spaces and practices.
Explanation
In Jain Dharma, worship of Jinendra Bhagwan, temple rituals, puja, samayik, pratikraman, and Guru-vandan are performed with a very high level of external and internal purity.
During menstruation, especially the first 3 days:
- the body is undergoing natural discharge,
- there may be pain, tiredness, mood changes, and weakness,
- traditional Jain conduct treats this period as unsuitable for formal religious contact and ritual activity.
So many Jain families and traditions follow the maryada that women should avoid:
- going to temple,
- touching idols, scriptures, puja items, rosary, etc.,
- doing formal Guru-vandan,
- sitting close to monks or nuns,
- participating in ritual worship.
Some traditions say even looking at idols or Guru Bhagwant should be avoided in the first 3 days. This is a stricter form of maryada followed in some communities.
Important Understanding
Periods are a natural bodily process. Jain Dharma does not teach hatred or disrespect toward a woman because of menstruation.
The restriction is not because the soul becomes impure. In Jain philosophy, the soul is separate from the body. The soul’s purity depends on its karma, passions, right faith, right knowledge, and right conduct — not on a biological process.
The restriction is related to ritual purity and physical condition, not the worth of the person.
What Can Be Done During Those Days?
Depending on family and sect tradition, a woman may still do inner bhav-dharma such as:
- remembering Navkar Mantra mentally,
- thinking of Tirthankar Bhagwan with devotion,
- practicing forgiveness, calmness, and ahimsa,
- listening to pravachan from a distance if allowed by one’s tradition,
- doing spiritual reflection without touching religious objects.
If your Guru or family tradition has specific rules, it is best to follow them respectfully.
Takeaway
The rule of not looking at idols or Guru Bhagwant during the first 3 days of periods comes from traditional Jain maryada of ritual purity and rest. It should be understood with respect, not as shame or discrimination. Spiritually, the soul remains capable of devotion, awareness, and inner purity at all times.