according to jainism is it wrong if i shift to japan for a job and live there and my family live in india because my other is too attached to mandir and bhagwan
Answer
According to Jain Dharma, shifting to Japan for a job is not automatically wrong.
What matters is:
- whether you continue to live with Jain values,
- whether you fulfill your duties toward your parents and family,
- whether the move increases attachment, greed, carelessness, or himsa,
- and whether you remain spiritually connected to Bhagwan, Dharma, and right conduct.
If your mother is deeply attached to mandir and Bhagwan, that devotion should be respected. But her devotion does not mean you can never live elsewhere. Jainism teaches balance: worldly duties should be handled with responsibility, and spiritual duties should not be forgotten.
Explanation
In Jain Dharma, the main focus is not “India or Japan,” but your inner conduct.
A person may live in India and still be full of anger, greed, ego, and attachment. Another person may live abroad and still practice:
- ahimsa,
- satya,
- aparigraha,
- daily prayer,
- samayik or pratikraman as possible,
- respect toward parents,
- and devotion to Bhagwan.
So the place itself is not the main issue. The main issue is whether your life remains dharmic.
At the same time, Jainism gives great importance to family responsibility. If your parents depend on you emotionally, financially, or physically, you should not ignore that. Before moving, you should think carefully:
- Will your parents be properly cared for?
- Will your mother feel abandoned?
- Can you arrange regular calls, visits, financial support, and emotional support?
- Can you help her continue her mandir, puja, and religious routine peacefully?
- Can your move be done with love, humility, and consent rather than conflict?
If you leave carelessly only for ambition, comfort, or money, while hurting your family deeply, that would not be ideal from a Jain point of view.
But if you move with responsibility, compassion, and continued devotion, then it need not be considered wrong.
Spiritual Understanding
Your mother’s attachment to mandir and Bhagwan may actually be deep bhakti. But Jainism also teaches that even good attachment should gradually become pure devotion, peace, and inner detachment.
You should not disrespect her feelings. Speak gently with her. Explain that going to Japan does not mean leaving Dharma or leaving Bhagwan. Bhagwan is not limited to one place. True worship is also in conduct: non-violence, honesty, humility, restraint, and compassion.
If you move, you can still remain connected by:
- doing daily Navkar Mantra,
- following vegetarian or Jain food discipline as much as possible,
- avoiding alcohol, meat, and harmful habits,
- doing pratikraman or repentance regularly,
- watching pravachan online if available,
- visiting Jain temples when possible,
- supporting your mother’s religious life in India,
- and visiting family when you can.
Takeaway
Living in Japan for a job is not wrong in itself according to Jainism. But leaving without care, hurting your parents, or forgetting Dharma would be spiritually harmful.
Move only after thinking with:
- responsibility,
- compassion,
- humility,
- and commitment to Jain values.
If your intention is pure and your conduct remains dharmic, you can live anywhere and still stay close to Bhagwan.