Doing sex is permitted?
Short answer:
- For monks and nuns (mahatmas): No. Complete celibacy (brahmacharya) in mind, speech, and body is mandatory.
- For lay Jains (shravaks/shravikas): Limited permission with strict restraints. Sex is allowed only within marriage, with one partner, and with self-control. Adultery, premarital/extramarital relations, coercion, abuse, or indulgent/excessive behavior are not permitted.
Why:
- Brahmacharya is one of the five great vows (mahavratas) for ascetics—absolute celibacy.
- For householders it is an anuvrata (small vow): fidelity to one spouse, avoidance of all other sexual contact, and cultivating restraint to reduce passions (kashayas).
Common guidelines for lay Jains:
- Be faithful to one spouse; avoid all other relations.
- Act with consent, care, and non‑violence; never harm, exploit, or coerce.
- Practice moderation; avoid stimulants of passion, pornography, and night‑time indulgence.
- Observe periodic abstinence on holy days (poshad/upvas) to strengthen self-control.
- Abortion and any act that destroys conceived life is violence and discouraged; methods that prevent conception before life begins are treated with caution and restraint.
Both Digambar and Shvetambar traditions agree on:
- Absolute celibacy for ascetics.
- Restricted, faithful, and non-violent conduct for laypeople aimed at spiritual progress.
If you want a simple summary: Monks—no sex at all. Household Jains—sex only with your spouse, with restraint and responsibility, as a step toward greater self-control.