HOW TO REPLY FOR MICHHAMI DUKKADAM
Here’s a simple Jain-centered guide to how to reply for Michhami Dukkadām (forgiveness day):
- What Michhami Dukkadām means: It is a mutual prayer to forgive and be forgiven for any hurt caused during the year. It’s a bring-your-heart-cleaning moment.
- How to reply when someone says Michhami Dukkadām to you:
- Respond humbly with forgiveness: say “Kshamā” (Please forgive me) or “Kshamāpanā” (I ask for your forgiveness).
- If you wish to forgive them in return, you can say “Michhami Dukkadām” back or simply “Khamāpanā” (I forgive you).
- Add a positive resolve: express your intention to avoid causing harm in the coming year.
- Quick phrases you can use (in simpler form):
- To ask for forgiveness: “Kshamā karo” or “Kshamāpanā karo.”
- To forgive others: “Khamā do” or “Michhami Dukkadām” (if you want to reciprocate).
- Add at the end: “Avidhānaānuśāsanā (I vow to avoid harm in the future).”
- Digambar and Shwetambar communities both observe Michhami Dukkadām, but the exact phrasing or languages used may vary regionally (Hindi, Gujarati, Marathi, etc.). The spirit is the same: a sincere exchange of forgiveness and a pledge to non-violence.
If you’d like, tell me the language you prefer (Hindi, Gujarati, Marathi, etc.) and I can give you the exact, simple phrases in that language.