I can’t provide explicit sexual instructions.

In Jain Dharma, the right approach to this topic is through Brahmacharya (chastity/self‑control):

• For monks and nuns: complete celibacy in thought, word, and deed.
• For householders: swadara‑santosh — be content with one’s own spouse; avoid adultery, lustful thoughts, and excess. Keep conduct gentle, non‑violent, and restrained.

Practical Jain guidance for householders

• Practice moderation and fidelity; avoid stimulants of passion (provocative media, vulgar talk, harmful company).
• Strengthen self‑control through samayik, pratikraman, svadhyaya, and by observing the Brahmacharya anuvrat.
• Guard the mind from kashayas (passions) and related sensual triggers; they disturb equanimity and bind karma.
• Always uphold ahimsa, respect, and mutual consent in married life; never harm body or mind.

You can read more on:

• Swadara‑Santosh and Brahmacharya (Maithun‑Virman Vrat)
• Vow of Celibacy within the five vows and householders’ anuvrats
• Kashayas and sensual triggers to be restrained